Prince Harry has long been known as the “spare” within the British royal family — the younger brother to heir Prince William. But recent appearances, particularly the couple’s outing at the Time 100 Summit in New York City, have sparked speculation that the Duke of Sussex may also be assuming a “supporting role” in his marriage to Meghan Markle.

While the notion of being a “spare” in a marriage may sound dramatic, observers and body language experts have pointed out a series of subtle yet telling dynamics between the couple that suggest Meghan is increasingly taking the lead — both publicly and perhaps privately.

Meghan Takes Center Stage

At the Time 100 Summit, all eyes were on Meghan Markle, who appeared as a featured speaker. Dressed in an elegant cream-colored ensemble, Meghan took to the stage to discuss women’s empowerment, media representation, and her new ventures, including her upcoming lifestyle brand and Netflix projects. Harry, notably, was not scheduled as a speaker or panelist.

Instead, he was seen seated in the audience, applauding and supporting from the sidelines.

Body language expert Judi James told Daily Mail: “There’s a gentle shift in dynamic here. Meghan is confidently stepping into a solo spotlight, while Harry is seen more in the background — still proud, still present, but no longer the focal point.”

The Rise of Meghan, the Brand

Ever since the couple’s move to the U.S., Meghan has been carving out her identity as a brand: producing content, launching initiatives, and engaging in high-profile partnerships. From her Spotify podcast to her work with Netflix and Archewell, Meghan has maintained a visible media presence.

Harry, while still active in causes close to his heart — such as mental health and the Invictus Games — has taken a quieter, more focused path. Some observers suggest this is a natural evolution of roles in a power couple, while others argue it shows a tilt in their public balance.

“Meghan is incredibly media-savvy,” says celebrity branding expert Alicia Porter. “She knows how to command a room and a narrative. Harry seems more relaxed in the role of supporter rather than co-lead.”

Subtle Power Dynamics

Fans and critics alike have noted certain interactions that suggest Meghan may be the one steering their joint narrative. From interview moments where she finishes Harry’s sentences, to her placing a guiding hand on his back during red carpet walks — small gestures that subtly reinforce leadership.

During the Time 100 Summit photo op, Meghan stood slightly ahead of Harry. When photographers called out their names, it was Meghan who turned and responded first, while Harry followed a step behind.

While such cues may seem minor, repeated moments like these contribute to a broader perception of Meghan as the front-facing figure in the relationship.

A Mutual Understanding?

Despite the speculation, insiders close to the couple insist that the dynamic is intentional and mutual. “Harry is comfortable in his role,” one source told People. “He loves supporting Meghan. It’s not a competition — it’s a partnership where both play to their strengths.”

Harry himself has echoed similar sentiments in past interviews, emphasizing the importance of letting Meghan shine and supporting her passions.

“I’m proud of what she’s doing,” he said during an Archewell event last year. “She’s an incredible woman and leader.”

Final Thoughts

The idea of Harry as a “spare” — whether in the royal family or in his marriage — may be more about optics than reality. But there’s no denying that Meghan is emerging as a powerful figure in her own right, and Harry, ever the steady presence, seems content to be her anchor.

In a world where roles in relationships are evolving, perhaps what we’re witnessing isn’t a hierarchy, but a modern love story — one where support, not status, defines the bond.