Meghan Markle’s life in Montecito, California — often portrayed as a serene, celebrity-studded escape from royal scrutiny — might not be as picture-perfect as it seems. A new report from a local resident has shed light on how the Duchess of Sussex is perceived in her upscale neighborhood, suggesting that Meghan has done little to endear herself to the local community since moving in with Prince Harry.

The anonymous neighbor, speaking to British media under the condition of anonymity, claimed that Meghan has kept a noticeable distance from other residents and avoids engaging in neighborhood events. “She doesn’t play the community game,” the neighbor stated. “She’s never really tried to fit in here.”

An Exclusive Neighborhood

Montecito, located in Santa Barbara County, is known for its affluent, tight-knit community of celebrities and wealthy elites. Residents include Oprah Winfrey, Ellen DeGeneres, and Gwyneth Paltrow — all of whom are known for blending luxury with a laid-back California vibe. But according to this particular neighbor, Meghan’s approach has been more isolated and “business-like.”

“She keeps to herself. No block parties, no casual hellos,” they claimed. “Everyone around here knows each other or at least makes an effort. Meghan isn’t like that.”

Despite her well-documented friendships with some local celebrities — including Oprah, who famously interviewed Meghan and Harry in 2021 — neighbors say the Duchess doesn’t go out of her way to socialize or attend community functions.

A Stark Contrast: Prince Harry’s California Persona

Interestingly, the same neighbor had far kinder words for Prince Harry. Describing him as “charming” and “far more at ease,” they said Harry seems to have adapted more naturally to California living.

“Harry’s the one you might bump into at the beach or at a local café. He’ll smile, he’ll chat — he’s trying. You can tell he’s putting in the effort,” the neighbor shared.

According to them, Harry often takes their children Archie and Lilibet out and about, occasionally seen at local parks or farmers markets, blending in with a baseball cap and a relaxed demeanor. “He’s got this approachable energy. It’s surprising, but kind of refreshing,” they added.

Meghan’s Focus on Privacy — or Control?

Supporters of Meghan argue that her desire to keep a low profile stems from her ongoing battle with media intrusion and public judgment. After years of being the target of harsh tabloid coverage and internet speculation, it’s understandable that Meghan may be guarded in her new environment.

But critics argue that there’s a fine line between maintaining privacy and appearing standoffish. “She’s building a brand about authenticity and connection, yet she’s unreachable to the very people around her,” one local remarked.

Others speculate that her apparent aloofness may be strategic, tied to the carefully curated image she’s building through her new lifestyle brand, American Riviera Orchard.

Mixed Feelings in the Neighborhood

Community reactions to Meghan and Harry’s presence remain mixed. Some locals are excited to have such high-profile residents, while others feel the couple brings unnecessary attention and media presence to a town that prides itself on discretion and calm.

“There was definitely a buzz when they moved in. Everyone was curious, maybe even a little proud,” one Montecito resident said. “But over time, it’s been clear that Meghan isn’t interested in being part of the community.”

Another resident offered a more sympathetic view: “She’s probably just protecting her peace. People love to judge her, no matter what she does.”

Balancing Royal Roots With a Hollywood Life

The couple’s move to Montecito in 2020 was seen as a turning point — a dramatic shift from royal life to one of freedom and autonomy. Meghan and Harry stated that they hoped to raise their children in a more private environment, far from the intensity of the British tabloids.

Since then, they have launched several business ventures, including a Netflix deal, a Spotify podcast (since canceled), and now Meghan’s reentry into lifestyle branding. But with every public step they take, it seems their private lives remain under constant scrutiny — even from their own neighbors.

Will Meghan Ever Truly Fit In?

Whether Meghan Markle intends to blend in with her Montecito community or continue cultivating a more selective, high-profile social circle remains to be seen. For now, the divide between perception and intention continues to grow.

“People just want to feel like their neighbors are real people,” the neighbor concluded. “With Harry, you feel that. With Meghan — not so much.”

Still, in a town full of celebrities used to their own privacy and idiosyncrasies, perhaps Meghan’s approach isn’t all that unusual. And given the couple’s ongoing projects and carefully managed public image, it’s likely Meghan is simply staying true to her own rhythm — whether Montecito approves or not.