In a move that has stunned fans and sent shockwaves through Hollywood and the Swiftie fandom, multiple sources are now confirming that Blake Lively and Taylor Swift — once inseparable best friends — have quietly ended their decade-long friendship. And if the whispers from insiders are true, another A-list celebrity may soon follow in cutting ties with the pop superstar.
From Besties to Radio Silence
Blake Lively and Taylor Swift were first publicly linked as friends in 2015, when the Gossip Girl star was spotted vacationing with Swift and her infamous “squad.” Over the years, their bond appeared strong — attending each other’s parties, exchanging sweet messages on social media, and even involving their families in joint celebrations. Swift famously used the names of Lively’s children in her song “Betty,” a gesture many saw as proof of their tight-knit relationship.
But fans began to sense something was off earlier this year, when Lively was noticeably absent from several of Swift’s high-profile outings — including her buzzy Super Bowl appearances, multiple Eras Tour stops, and even the singer’s 2024 Grammy win celebration.
A source close to the situation told Elle: “They’ve grown apart. It wasn’t one big fight — more like a slow drift over time. Blake values her privacy, and she didn’t always love being associated with the public drama that can surround Taylor.”
Differences in Lifestyle and Values?
While the exact cause of the split remains unclear, insiders suggest a growing difference in lifestyle, public exposure, and inner-circle dynamics. Blake, who’s married to actor Ryan Reynolds, has long tried to maintain a relatively low-key family life. Taylor, on the other hand, has recently been in the spotlight more than ever — not just for her music, but for her high-profile romance with NFL star Travis Kelce and political activism.
One insider hinted, “Blake felt like Taylor was changing. The Taylor she knew was different — more grounded. Now, it’s all press, paparazzi, and constant headlines. That’s not Blake’s world.”
Adding fuel to the speculation was the fact that Ryan Reynolds, once a visible member of Swift’s friend group, unfollowed the singer on Instagram last month. While his team denied any bad blood, fans weren’t convinced.
Another Star Walking Away?
Even more intriguing is the rumor that another A-list friend — believed to be actress and singer Selena Gomez — is also on the verge of distancing herself from Swift. Gomez and Swift have long been known as best friends and staunch supporters of each other’s careers. But according to a report from Us Weekly, Gomez has become increasingly “uncomfortable” with Swift’s current public image and may be re-evaluating their friendship.
“They’ve had disagreements behind closed doors,” said a source. “Selena’s very private when it comes to relationships and personal growth. Taylor’s public-facing approach isn’t always aligned with that.”
While no official statements have been made, Gomez’s recent solo public appearances — including events she once would have attended with Swift — have not gone unnoticed.
The End of the “Squad” Era?
For fans who grew up idolizing Swift’s all-female “squad” — a powerful friend group that once included Karlie Kloss, Gigi Hadid, Lively, Gomez, and more — the recent shifts are a bitter pill to swallow. Social media is flooded with speculation, theories, and emotional tributes to what once was.
Still, some fans believe this is just a natural part of growing older. “Friendships change,” one fan wrote on X (formerly Twitter). “It doesn’t mean someone’s the villain. Maybe they just outgrew each other.”
What’s Next for Taylor?
As Taylor continues her Eras Tour and prepares for the international leg later this year, it remains to be seen whether she’ll address the rumors — or let the silence speak volumes. Either way, it’s clear that the golden age of her star-studded friendships may be coming to an end.
One thing’s certain: Hollywood is watching, and so are the fans.